Tom Brady and the pursuit of your passion

Tom Brady won his seventh Super Bowl recently, continuing to fight against father time and keep the bout far from concluding any time soon. Why hasn’t the 45-year-old quarterback retired yet?

This season began with Tom Brady walking into the neighbour’s front door of his new offensive co-ordinator. It ended with him holding his seventh Super Bowl in the Tampa Bay Buccaneers home stadium, continuing a trail of success that we will never see again.

The obvious question he faced was about whether he was coming back. He pulled a face as if someone had asked him something ridiculous.

“Oh yeah, we’re coming back,” Brady said.

I think the underlying question is ‘why?’

When you are the undisputed G.O.A.T (Greatest Of All Time), why not hang them up? It’s impossible to have a sweeter swan song.

I think I know why.

It’s because Brady is not willing to let his passion fade away.

This is something he has relentlessly worked for since he was a kid.

Brady doesn’t want to sit and watch games from the TV just yet. He’s still addicted to the feeling of winning, of proving the doubters wrong year-on-year, that elation of knowing you are fulfilling your inner-most goal.

He feels most alive living his passion of working on his craft, studying opposition defensive plans and running onto the turf in preparation for battle.

It’s why Mike Tyson continued to fight at 48-years-old, despite it being obvious his best days were behind him. He is a natural-born warrior. It was only after he suffered two final losses he had quit for long-term health concerns.

It’s also the reason why Michael Jordan continued to play for the Washington Wizards after his magical era with the Chicago Bulls. He didn’t play over 20 games in either season and put up less than mediocre stats.

Everyone has something in them, an activity or a pursuit, something that truly makes them feel ‘alive’.

Alive in the sense that everything else is a blur, it is unnecessary distraction to the real prize. It’s not about reaching whatever it is, but it is in the journey to it. And getting there is never enough.

Whatever it is for you, I say chase it forever- and never let it die.

As the great poet Dylan Thomas wrote, “rage, rage against the dying of the light.”

Because once you stop, some part of you will fade away and die forever.

I loved it when Brady said ‘what do you think?’ when asked if he was coming back.

A quote in The Great Gatsby, describes it best: “All the bright precious things fade so fast and they never come back.”

So we continue the pursuit.

For we know, just like Brady, if we stop something will be lost, part of our spirit that is so gleaming and real. We must continue the fight, the chase, the life-long endeavour.

As Scott F. Fitzgerald continued: “We beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.”

Six days after winning and celebrating, Brady was back doing what he truly loves. Preparing for another Super Bowl run.

He’s not willing to let his passion die- because if he does he knows part of him will die with it.

So, just like Brady, we must continue against all that the journey lays ahead of us, in the pursuit of our passion.

‘Success without integrity is nothing’: Merci Arséne

As Arséne Wenger concludes his 22-year relationship with Arsenal, his departure is much more than a manager leaving his pertinacious post.

It is a loss of morality, honesty and loyalty in an sport and society that needs it now more than ever.

Throughout my 20 years on this planet, there have only been a few constants. One happened to be in North London, guiding the Arsenal through silverware-laden times and roller-coaster campaigns.

To some, this was all that mattered. You can find them on YouTube and Twitter quite easily, often outraged outside the Emirates and venting into a camera.

However, for me and many others 20-something-year-olds who have only known the Wenger era, Arséne’s Arsenal meant so much more.

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I grew up learning to stick with your belief in what is right, to always have your rectitude and honesty at the forefront of your mind.

I went from a kid being thankful for the Arsenal manager’s dynamic football to a young man indebted for his philosophy-laden L’Equipe interviews and thoughts on existentialism in his Friday press conference.

“The only possible moment of happiness is the present. The past gives you regrets. And the future uncertainties. Man understood this very fast and created religion.

“It absolves you of what you’ve done wrong in the past and tells him not to worry about the future, because he’ll go to paradise. It means make the most of the present. Man ‘self-psychoanalysed’ himself very quickly through faith.”

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As I grew to understand the man and his principles more, I grew more emotionally attached than most fans to their teams. For me, it was the beautiful game and more. It was about self-belief, battling through adversity and winning in the right way.

His beliefs became mine. When he won, so did I. When he lost, I would feel the pain too.

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I’m not naïve, and my arguments for him to stay  dwindled after the 2015/16 campaign. But how do you dispel something that you believe in more than anything? It is hard, and I fear that question will never be answered.

In some ways, I am glad it’s over, because having your life-long beliefs being attacked every week must be piercing. I’m also glad that it’s not what I’ll remember.

 

I know that in time I will look back and think of the well-dressed, calm, principled man I saw on the touchline at the Emirates.

I will think of the guy who somehow gave us Mesut Özil, Alexis Sánchez and Aaron Ramsey.

Someone who treated us to ‘Wengerball’, mesmerising sequences of one-touch passing we did not think possible. That still inspires me every time I play football.

Most importantly, he gave us the game plan on how to be an exceptional person. And it is for that I will thank him for most.

The quote “success without integrity is nothing” is more than a cheesy line echoed in a Hugo Boss advertisement. It is something that we were told every time Arsenal won.

I hope there’s one more well-principled trophy left in the locker for my hero, Arséne Wenger.

Merci Arséne. For everything.

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